My little girl on my first bike after returning. |
Last night I watched ‘Why We Ride (2013).’ I lack the vocabulary to
say how good it was, how good it made me feel. It took me a while to work out
why it made me feel good but I think I’m there now. I know I’m a motorcyclist,
a biker. The film was all about us and what we are like. It was about our hopes
and dreams, what makes us tick. Diversity is a key feature throughout: different
bikes, different activities, different parts of the world and most importantly,
different people. From children and young families to an 87 year old woman
hoping she’ll still ride at 100, the film seemed to be about amazing people
from all walks of life. And yet, for all the diversity there was a oneness. Motorcyclists
in their many forms come together as one rich community. The film made me feel
good because I’m part of that.
Then, this morning, I was coming to work. I treated myself
to riding the VStrom and going a fairly roundabout way. How could I not after
watching that film. Riding gives one time to think and before long I was
thinking about family and friends. I've often wondered how long it will be
before Beth can safely reach the pegs on the bike. Perhaps we should look into
an electric bike for the kids to get started on. Sidecar outfits always cross
my mind but they never stay long. I wondered that today. I try not to think it
out loud in case mum can hear. As she reads this blog, I should probably wonder
it no more.
Carrying pillion makes for time together. Separate bikes would also be good. |
And that’s kind of where we come back to the community. I’m
not a lone wolf and most motorcyclist I know and respect aren't either. Their
bikes aren't just toys, they’re a starting point for relationships with other like-minded
human beings. That’s also sort of why I write in my blog, hoping that I might
meet other like-minded folk and natter (in which the blog has been singularly
unsuccessful for me). I don’t want to ride alone anywhere near as much as I
would love to enjoy motorcycling with others. That could be friends; it could
be family or just some other chap who also happened to be there. The friends
and family option though, obviously that is the platinum standard. I never wanted
motorcycles to take me away from the people and love and care about and the
more I think about it, the more I think it shouldn't have to.
Six year into parenthood and there are promising signs. |